Isaiah wrote that the day will come that their will be righteous leaders and -
"...the eyes of them that see shall not be dim, and the ears of them that hear shall hearken.
4 The heart also of the rash shall understand knowledge, and the tongue of the stammerers shall be ready to speak plainly." (Old Testament | Isaiah 32:3 - 4)
Which suggests to me that the day will come that those that teach will speak plainly by the power of the Holy Ghost such that peoples hearts will understand doctrine and receive knowledge.
Down the same line, Isaiah even counseled -
"Rise up, ye women that are at ease; hear my voice, ye careless daughters; give ear unto my speech." (Old Testament | Isaiah 32:9)
This last Sunday, I spoke at a stake Young Women meeting where I was impressed to speak on the same counsel. For my own journal, my remarks were -
Being
it is Father’s day, I would like to speak on a topic that is of greatest interest
to fathers and men…the topic is “women”.
When
Laman and Lemuel was asked to return to Jerusalem with Nephi and Sam to get the
plates of Laban, we know they murmured all the way claiming that it was a hard
thing to do.
But
when Lehi asked them to return again to Jerusalem to get the daughters of
Ishmael, there wasn’t a peep for some reason.
Suddenly this trip did not seem so hard after all.
Years
later, as Lehi sensed that his days were numbered, he counseled Laman and
Lemuel –
“…now
that my soul might have joy in you, and that my heart might leave this world
with gladness because of you, that I might not be brought down with grief and
sorrow to the grave, arise from the dust, my sons, and be men…” (Book of Mormon | 2 Nephi 1:21)
Obviously,
what Lehi considered men should be is not necessarily what the world would consider
men to be, such as we might find in GQ or Men’s Health magazines. His thoughts were that men should be as the
Lord would have men be…priesthood men.
As
I pondered addressing you young women this morning for some reason my thoughts
are much in the same line as Lehi’s, but this time with the young women. Using much the same language as Lehi, I
believe those words could easily have been said –
“…now
that [our Father in Heaven] might have joy in you, and that “He” might [have]
gladness because of you, arise from the dust, [oh daughters of Zion], and be
[women]…” (Book of Mormon | 2 Nephi
1:21)
Again,
obviously, not as the world considers women should be as we might find in
Cosmopolitan or Women’s Day magazines, but as what our Father in Heaven sees a true
woman to be…women of Zion.
As
I approached this topic this morning, I realized that I might be walking on
very thin ice. I realize that I could
possibly offend…(maybe even with some of your Young Women leaders) and it makes
me a little bit uneasy…especially being a man, a priesthood holder sharing my
thoughts of what I think a woman should be.
So,
as I pondered the idea of “arise from the dust and be women”. My thoughts immediately went to some of the
women in scripture that I thought would be great examples of true women…as the
Lord would have them be. The kind of
woman our Mother in Heaven must be.
We
know it all began with Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden. As Adam was placed in the garden, the Gods
said, (and being that Gods is plural, I believe the Gods included our Heavenly Mother)
–
“…Let
us make an help meet for the man, for it is not good that the man should be
alone…” (Pearl of Great Price | Abraham
5:14)
I
think it is very important this morning to emphasize that the wording “help”
and “meet” are written as two separate words.
Being two words would suggest that this addition would be a help, which
of necessity, would have to be, at minimum, meet for man. Some definitions of the word “meet” suggests living,
working, and communicating one with another as equals, as in “meeting” or
“meeting of the minds”. The word “meet”
also suggests that of highest quality and character. In my mind, it was Eve that really completed Adam,
being sufficiently meet, if not better than him. Thus Eve would not only be of help to Adam,
but she would also be “meet for him or equal to him.
And
as they were placed together in the Garden, both Adam and Eve being meet for
one another, were commanded –
“…Of
every tree of the garden thou mayest freely eat,
17 But of the tree of the knowledge of good and
evil, thou shalt not eat of it, nevertheless, thou mayest choose for thyself, for it is given unto thee…” (Pearl of Great Price | Moses 3:16 - 17)
We
know little of life in the Garden of Eden, but this morning I would like to
suggest an analogy in my own life. There
are few things I enjoy more than sitting down and watching a good football
game. Under such a relaxing and
enjoyable condition, I can’t help but envision someone approaching me, while I
am relaxing watching a good game, interrupting me in an attempt to entice me,
with say a nice big red apple. And then, in doing so tells me that I have a choice
to make. I can relax in my lounge chair watching good football
games day after day or I can choose to eat this apple. But if I choose to eat the apple, I will have
to get out of my chair and go to work, which would mean –
“By
the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread, until thou shalt return unto the
ground—for thou shalt surely die…”
(Pearl of Great Price | Moses 4:25)
I
think that would be a very easy decision for me…even if it was a chocolate chip
cookie and bowl of ice cream instead of the apple. Well I am sure it was an easy decision for
Adam too!
But
interesting enough, it doesn’t appear that the woman Eve felt the same way. We know the Lord had already instructed Adam
and Eve to –
“…Be
fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth…” (Pearl of Great Price | Moses 2:28)
Using
that same analogy, while Adam relaxed, watching football, Eve must have
understandably longed for much more. Possessing
the, God given, divine nature of motherhood, those words to “be fruitful and
multiply”, must have weighed heavy on her mind and heart.
Contrary
to how some may perceive life to be in the Garden, I believe both Adam and Eve
well understood the conditions of the fall much more than some give them
credit. As Satan came to deceive Eve, I
believe Eve was already pondering and struggling with how limiting life was in
the garden and probably wondering how much more fulfilling life could really be
with children, family and friends (especially with Adam sitting around watching
football all day). As Satan seemed to
present many of the same thoughts that she may have already been pondering, she
seemed to conclude to herself, “Is there no other way?”
I
personally don’t believe Satan deceived Eve at all in regards to the
consequence of the fall. I believe Eve
understood that. I believe where Eve was
deceived was in the motives of Satan.
For we know that Satan’s sole purpose had nothing to do with helping
Eve, but was entirely for personal gain, power, and glory as he –
“…sought
to destroy the agency of man…” (Pearl of
Great Price | Moses 4:3)
The
real lie and deception was that he desired the posterity of Eve to miserable as
himself. And Satan knew this could only
happen if Adam and Eve were expelled from the Garden.
It
was mother Eve that took the initiative to take the necessary action so the
plan of salvation could move forward for all of God’s children. Even though her choice is considered a
transgression, I honor and credit Eve for that choice and the great blessing of
this second estate we now enjoy. Hoping
not to sound too disrespect, again using my personal analogy, her decision got
Adam off the couch.
I
believe the words of Lehi could have easily been written –
“[Eve
first, then] Adam fell that men might be; and men are, that they might have
joy.” (Book of Mormon | 2 Nephi 2:25)
Honor
and praise be to the woman Eve. Eve was
a great example of what a true woman should be.
That is, willing to take the initiative in doing those things that she felt
was right.
In
the book of Judges we learn of the woman and prophetess, Deborah. Of a prophet or prophetess the bible
dictionary explains –
“The
work of a…prophet [or prophetess is] to act as God's messenger and make known
God's will.” (Bible Dictionary | P
Prophet:Entry)
Thus
a prophet or prophetess is a teacher, a “forthteller not a foreteller”. In order to be considered a prophetess,
Deborah of necessity then, must have possessed the “spirit of prophecy” or in
other words, a testimony of Jesus Christ for the angel declared to John the
Revelator–
“…I
am thy fellowservant, and of thy brethren that have the testimony of Jesus…for
the testimony of Jesus is the spirit of prophecy.” (New Testament | Revelation 19:10)
Thus
as explained in the bible dictionary –
“In
a general sense a prophet is anyone who has a testimony of Jesus Christ by the Holy Ghost…” (Bible Dictionary |
P Prophet:Entry)
Thus
Deborah was a woman that possessed a testimony of Jesus Christ. She knew that
the Savior would come to redeem mankind. She was an example what Moses desired of all women,
when he declared –
“…would God that all the LORD's
people were prophets, and that the
LORD would put his spirit upon them!”
(Old Testament | Numbers 11:29)
A true woman then possesses a
testimony of Jesus Christ and understands, teaches, and testifies of His true
doctrine concerning the plan of salvation and that the Savior will come again.
The
story of Ruth is a great love story in many ways. What woman does not appreciate a great love
story? Ruth was devoted and loving woman
that was willing to faithfully commit to her mother-in-law, Naomi, when she
said after the death of her husband –
“…Intreat
me not to leave thee, or to return
from following after thee: for whither thou goest, I will go; and where thou
lodgest, I will lodge: thy people shall
be my people, and thy God my God:
17 Where thou diest, will I die, and there will
I be buried…” (Old Testament | Ruth 1:16
- 17)
Ruth
honored that faithful commitment. When
times became very tough and economically difficult, she didn’t bolt or abandon
her mother-in-law, but instead she was willing to go out of the home and work
in the field to support her for we read –
“…she
went, and came, and gleaned in the field after the reapers…” (Old Testament | Ruth 2:3)
And
this she did do, day after day where –
“…she
gleaned in the field until even…” (Old
Testament | Ruth 2:17)
To
make this love story short, Ruth eventually fell in love, remarried and was
blessed with a family. In doing so, she
become the great grandmother of King David and a direct ancestor of the Savior. As a woman, Ruth was true to her commitments
and covenants, and was prepared to work and do whatever was necessary to
preserve life and family.
I
can’t leave this story of womanhood without mentioning Naomi as she took on the
loving role of grandmother. Having
recently become a grandparent, I love where it is written –
“And
Naomi took the child, and laid it in her bosom, and became nurse unto it.
17 And the women her neighbours gave it a name,
saying, There is a son born to Naomi…”
(Old Testament | Ruth 4:16 - 17)
What
woman doesn’t cherish the role of being a grandmother?
I
mentioned that just for your Young Women leaders!
In
the days of Esther the tradition was that –
“All
the king's servants, and the people of the king's provinces, do know, that
whosoever, whether man or woman, shall come unto the king into the inner court,
who is not called, there is one law
of his to put him to death, except
such to whom the king shall hold out the golden sceptre, that he may
live…” (Old Testament | Esther 4:11)
At
the very peril of her life, Esther accepted the counsel of Mordecai where he
counseled her –
“Think
not with thyself … more than all the Jews.”
(Old Testament | Esther 4:13)
In
order to preserve the lives of many Jews that were about to be slain, in great
faith and risk, Esther went forth and –
“…put
on her royal apparel, and stood in the inner court of the king's house…” (Old Testament | Esther 5:1)
…which
we know the law stated she should be put to death. What great protection the Lord blessed her
with as –
“...when
the king saw Esther…standing in the court, that
she obtained favour in his sight: and the king held out to Esther the golden
sceptre that was in his hand.” (Old Testament | Esther 5:2)
Thus
her life was spared. Because Esther had
such great love for her people, brothers and sisters in the gospel, she risked
her life that a great Jewish posterity would be preserved. True women are willing to go to great risk to
bless family and friends, whether it be life or reputation.
There
are so many more great examples I could give, but the time is limited. For
example –
There
was the faithful and nurturing character of Hannah.
There
was Sariah, wife of Lehi, which could not be comforted until her sons returned
from their missions.
There
was the queen,wife of Lamoni, a Lamanite, that had greater faith than all the Nephites… And there are so many more examples
But
before I leave these great examples of womanhood, it would be a mistake not to
mention Mary, the mother of Jesus, being as Nephi saw –
“…A virgin, most beautiful and
fair above all other virgins.” (Book of
Mormon | 1 Nephi 11:15)
Mary
was such a virtuous woman that she was chosen to be the mother of the Son of
God where –
“…the
angel came in unto her, and said, Hail, thou
that art highly favoured, the Lord is
with thee: blessed art thou among
women.” (New Testament | Luke 1:28)
A
true woman is a virtuous woman.
As
I pondered how I might summarize the words, “arise from the dust and be women”,
what came to my mind were a few words in the Young Women theme – “we will be
prepared to strengthen home and family”.
My thoughts were…that’s it! How
could I summarize it better?
In
my mind, the true woman strengthens home and family.
Many
times it is said that the father is the head of the home. If that is so, then the mother has to be the
neck. It is the neck that controls the
head and points the head in the direction it should go. I want you to know that is true from
experience.
As
true women, you have great capacity to strengthen home and family.
As
we ponder the meaning of strengthening home and family, the Young Women theme
also states, “We are daughters of our Heavenly Father”. If we are daughters of a Heavenly Father,
then we are all sisters in Zion and throughout the world. This would also suggest that we are sisters
to all the boys and men. Are we not all one
big family? The scriptures refer to this
as the house of Israel or family of Israel.
When we consider the meaning of strengthening the family, it really
extends far beyond our own immediate family at home.
To
be a true woman, you will strengthen your spiritual brothers and sisters,
friends and neighbors. And even those
that you do not presently know. You will never know the impact you may have
among young men and young women you associate with as you strive to live the
Young Women values.
To
this day, I still honor and praise those young women that were true to their
values that reached out to me when I was your age. If you approach any of your priesthood
leaders, I’m sure they could mention a number of young women that strengthened them
also by their example. Therefore -
“…now
that [our Father in Heaven] might have joy in you, and that “He” might [ have]
gladness because of you, arise from the dust, [Oh daughters of Zion], and be [women]…” (Book of Mormon | 2 Nephi 1:21)
In
my mind, that would suggest…those that are women who strengthen home and family.