D&C 95

From the Savior, we learn as parents how best to deal with our children when they are disobedient, as He says -

"VERILY, thus saith the Lord unto you whom I love, and whom I love I also chasten that their sins may be forgiven, for with the chastisement I prepare a way for their deliverance in all things out of temptation, and I have loved you—
2 Wherefore, ye must needs be chastened and stand rebuked before my face;
3 For ye have sinned against me a very grievous sin, in that ye have not considered the great commandment in all things, that I have given unto you..."  (Doctrine and Covenants | Section 95:1 - 3)

I specifically note the expression of love, that an action or inactions is not acceptable, and that we will work to help.